5 January 2020
Draft of an email to send to bishoprics and branch presidencies after surveying them on how often they are meeting with their youth?
Bishops and Branch Presidents…
We appreciate how well you’re engaging the youth in your ward or branch. This link gives all of you a quick visual of how each of you are doing, according to the survey you completed:
We share this data with the hope we do not cause comparisons, but only to give you an overview of what others are doing.
With this data, we’re wondering if you might like to talk to discuss this and/or share ideas? If interested, we’ll be happy to arrange for and facilitate a brief “bishopric discussion night” on a regular basis (weekly? monthly?)…maybe on a Thursday evening at 8:30 pm for a half hour?
Some of you have asked…
…how often should we be meeting with the youth?
…what should we do when the youth are burned out with Zoom?
… when youth aren’t meeting, can we resume some of the adult meetings, like RS and EQ, on Sundays?
While we may not have specific answers from the Area Presidency on all of your questions, here are some thoughts from the stake presidency, with Area Presidency guidance in mind:
HOW OFTEN?
Youth are the bishopric's #1 priority and of premier importance to the Brethren. We strongly recommend you find a way to teach the gospel to youth at least weekly, if not twice weekly—as we are accustomed to doing with Sunday classes and weeknight activities. There’s never been a greater need for leaders to help youth gain a testimony that will carry them into their adult years.
While that is the parents’ responsibility to raise up a converted generation, we all know that teenagers often follow the advice of friends and leaders more than parents. Many parents are worried.
WHAT ELSE CAN WE DO?
The Church is not going to tell us everything. Some families are desperately looking for help from leaders, who will prayerfully seek ways to connect with their children and teens and guide them onto the covenant path—unfortunately, without the benefit of temple excursions and freedom to gather and socialize easily in person.
It’s a time for everyone to “think outside the box” in coming up with new ways to connect with youth. The new Stake Youth Leadership Committee and the Ward Youth Committee are ideal for conducting such discussions regularly. Are those meetings happening consistently and are they effective?
WHAT WORKS?
We commend you when you meet often with youth and adult youth leaders to discuss ways to connect with youth.
Several key principles would apply here:
1) Youth respond to peers; class and quorum presidencies, when functioning well, play a HUGE role in this effort;
2) Personal interviews, even more often than every six months, can help bishopric members and other leaders stay close to the youth;
3) Working personally with the children, youth and their parents in implementing the Children and Youth Initiative in the home can have a dramatic impact;
4) Coordinating with parents and Seminary instructors to encourage Seminary attendance and spiritual growth will bond leaders and teachers with the high school - age youth.
WHY NOT ADULT CLASSES, TOO?
We recognize that Relief Society and Elders Quorum presidencies are eager to gather their members. We caution against any virtual or in-person gatherings besides those of youth classes and discussions on the Sabbath. One of the lessons, from watching the Brethren respond to the pandemic, is that they want us to protect the Sabbath for families. The Area Presidency feels so strongly about that…coupled with their concern for the youth…that the only exception they offer to the Sabbath-Is-For-Families "rule" is for sacrament meetings and teaching the youth. Beyond that they have not given any encouragement.
So it brings us back to “thinking out of the box.”
How can we help RS and EQ presidencies accomplish their objectives and goals without simply returning to a two-hour meeting schedule? Frankly, we’ve observed that those who’ve tried to hold RS and EQ meetings, even virtually, attendance is disappointing.
Can we task the ward council to try new approaches, such as…
…Can we informally organize virtual study groups?
…Can we teach ministering brothers and sisters, in ministering interviews, to more effectively provide personal fellowshipping (what does it look like)?
…Can we organize “teams” and tournaments for playing online games?
…Can we offer educational, informational, entertaining classes?
…Can we help create book clubs, movie reviewers groups, do-it-yourself handyman groups?
…Can we organize adults to serve as mentors or coaches to youth or other adults?
…Can we create a service committee and task them with coming up with a monthly service project that can be done at home?